Hesterberg Blog Posts

"We've talked about this so many times already." This is a sentence I hear from couples again and again. And most of the time, it's true. They have talked. Sometimes for hours. They've discussed, explained, argued, searched for compromises, and made up again. Yet they keep finding themselves facing the very same conflicts. Eventually, many couples begin to feel: "We're just going around in circles." At that point, it's easy to believe that the solution is simply to talk more.