FOR INTERNATIONAL & INTERCULTURAL COUPLES
Your differences were your adventure once.
Today they leave you lonely.
You still love each other. But sometimes it feels like you are living in different worlds. I will support you in finding your way back to each other despite cultural and personal differences.
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accompanied mediation processes
160+
German English
Worldwide online & in person in Mettmann
confidential & respectful
IS THAT HOW YOU FEEL?
A lot of couples feel that way.
You love each other, but conversations are more difficult, and intimacy is less frequent. This isn't a personal weakness. It's often the result of cultural differences that aren't always immediately apparent in everyday life.
Some couples come to me because they want to get closer to each other again.
Others because they are separating and want to do so respectfully.
We will work together to develop your personal solutions.
THIS IS HOW IT WORKS
1
Initial consultation
30 minutes, no strings attached. You tell me what's on your mind.
I explain how I work.
2
Prepare/Enrich Assessment
You will each complete the online assessment independently. You will both receive an evaluation.
3
Joint sessions
Online or in person in Mettmann.
We work at your personal pace, as many sessions as you need.
4
Specific agreements
You go home with clarity and with new tools that connect you in your everyday life.
SCIENTIFICALLY BASED
Prepare/Enrich
Prepare/Enrich is a scientifically based assessment that is used at the beginning of our collaboration.
It helps you to highlight the strengths of your relationship and to work together to identify areas for improvement.
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"Taking stock" of your relationship
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Identifying strengths and areas for development
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Guidance for the mediation process
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Together instead of against each other
ABOUT ME
Because I know two worlds first hand.
I am familiar with the challenges of international relations not only from my professional work. I have been living in an intercultural marriage myself for over twenty years.
For many years I worked in an international environment and repeatedly witnessed how conflicts remained unspoken, especially when there were significant external changes. These experiences motivated me to become a certified mediator.
I have now facilitated over 160 mediation processes on a wide variety of topics.
Today I help international couples to start talking to each other again.
WHY DO CONFLICTS ARISE?
Maybe it's not because love is missing.
Different cultures bring with them different expectations, communication patterns, and experiences. Therefore, the same event can be experienced completely differently by both partners.
This doesn't mean your relationship has failed. It simply means you've learned to see the same world in different ways.
WHAT COUPLES SAY
What couples say about working with me
"Her empathetic and clear manner has helped us a lot. She manages to open a space with great heart and professionalism where people understand each other, even when things get emotionally difficult."
– Christian Holzschuh, German, married to Vanessa from the Philippines · Marriage seminar
"She was a real help during a time of upheaval and stress. I felt understood and taken seriously and could open up completely at any time. Absolutely recommendable!"
– Kezia Liesenfeld, Englishwoman married to Fabian from Germany · Couples counseling & coaching
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